Wednesday, 3 July 2013

Rachel Sinclair, BA (Hons)

Three and a bit years ago I was given an unconditional offer onto DeMontfort University’s Photography and Video Production Bachelor degree course. Three and a bit years ago I accepted my offer as a 20 year old, single girl and began to get myself accustomed to student life on my own.

Three and a bit years later, I am GRADUATING from this course as a 24 year old, married woman who has gone through six long months of ‘waiting’, an engagement, a wedding, a pregnancy, a premature birth, a stay in hospital and finally finishing off the last few months of my degree as a mother looking after a new, tiny little baby.

Never in a million years was I expecting any of this to happen- I never saw myself as a University student in the first place, but to then have gone through all the above whilst completing my degree, well, it has certainly been a challenge.

One of my friends from Uni has commented that I have gained so much in the last three years- this is so true. But I don’t just count my degree success in that as many people would. I count first and foremost what I have achieved alongside that- a brilliant husband and a beautiful baby daughter- my own little family.

I am so proud that I had the strength to carry on and complete my final year amidst all that has happened during it. I never knew the true meaning of ‘stress’ until I found myself with a sick baby in intensive care, right at the cusp of my final year with half of my work yet to be completed.

I cannot believe I am now a University graduate, but what I can’t believe more is that I am a mother to such a perfect and beautiful little girl. She has added sunshine to my life every day. Peter came along and was the water and nutrients, putting goodness back into my life, and now Skye is the beautiful flowers growing from that care.

I need to thank my brilliant husband for being my support and my broad, strong shoulder to lean on throughout this whole situation. I honestly could not have done it without him- both degree and birth! He is the closest person to perfect I know.

I am completely chuffed that I have done so well in my Degree when I was expecting an average outcome. I am proud that I didn’t defer. I am proud that I didn’t take a year out. I am proud I completed everything in time for the usual hand-in period, all whilst holding a newborn! I am happy for myself that I have this achievement, it means more to me than just a Degree, it means I have proved to myself and to others that I am very capable of it, even though I got frustrated with it a lot of the time, I still did it and did it GOOD!

Dating after waiting




Premature birth

 Stay in hospital

At home

Finishing degree with baby


The best reward!

Graduation pictures will follow after my graduation ceremony this month :)

1 comment:

Joanna Horne said...

Let me be the first to congratulate you for the past so many years. It's not been easy but it's all been worth it. How proud I am of you, of your achievements and of your inner strength and courage.
A well deserved degree!
Love always,